Setting Fire to the Past: Forgiveness Without Reconciliation

Setting Fire to the Past: Forgiveness Without Reconciliation

In burning those bridges, you ignite the flames of your own empowerment — creating space for a future that reflects your true worth. You are worthy of love, respect, and peace. Let go of the past and step into your power. Need some matches? I got extra.

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Applying Pressure for the Next Six Months
Ashleigh Montford Ashleigh Montford

Applying Pressure for the Next Six Months

The next six months are a blank canvas, ready to be painted with bold strokes of ambition and achievement. If you’re ready to apply pressure in your own life, I’d love to hear your plans. Drop a comment or reach out through my website to share your journey.

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When “Friends” Compete: The Silent Battle of Jealousy
Ashleigh Montford Ashleigh Montford

When “Friends” Compete: The Silent Battle of Jealousy

Friendship is supposed to be a safe space—a sanctuary where mutual support, love, and encouragement thrive. But what happens when a “friend” starts to compete instead of celebrate? When their inner dialogue shifts from cheering you on to wondering how they can outdo you?

Jealousy within friendships isn’t always obvious. Sometimes, it’s hidden behind forced smiles, backhanded compliments, or subtle attempts to minimize your achievements. While it’s easy to feel hurt or betrayed, it’s important to understand what’s really going on: their competition isn’t with you—it’s with themselves.

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Delivering Through the Storm: Why Your Hustle is Your Strength (They Really Don’t Give a Damn)

Delivering Through the Storm: Why Your Hustle is Your Strength (They Really Don’t Give a Damn)

As someone who has battled chronic physical and mental health struggles for much of my life, I know firsthand how hard it can be to navigate the demands of everyday life while carrying an invisible load. There are days when simply getting out of bed feels like a victory. Yet, despite the challenges, the world around us doesn't pause, and deadlines don't extend themselves. People often aren't concerned about what you’re dealing with behind closed doors—they only see the end result. And you know what? That’s okay.

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Stepping Over You.
Ashleigh Montford Ashleigh Montford

Stepping Over You.

And it wasn’t just people. Problems—small issues that felt like colossal barriers—would trip me up, leaving me stuck and questioning my direction. I allowed them to halt my progress, losing sight of the bigger picture because I was so focused on what was immediately in front of me. I saw challenges as insurmountable walls rather than stepping stones.

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My Irrefutable Resilience in Defining My Reality | AP’s Perspective of the Intersectionality of the American Dream and Black Life
Inner Intellectual Rants/Convos Ashleigh Montford Inner Intellectual Rants/Convos Ashleigh Montford

My Irrefutable Resilience in Defining My Reality | AP’s Perspective of the Intersectionality of the American Dream and Black Life

From my perspective, in order for me to define anything resembling myself - internally or externally, I had to begin to understand where I came from and who I am - and then I could begin cultivating my desires and reality. Now that I am on that lifelong journey of absolute toughness and Black life experiences, not even my version of the American Dream, but my Black Reality is so, I’m transforming into a dynamic powerhouse by any means necessary.

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Start Something to Change Everything
Changing AP's Realm Ashleigh Montford Changing AP's Realm Ashleigh Montford

Start Something to Change Everything

Starting something that can change everything isn’t about reaching a final destination—it’s about embracing the journey of growth and transformation. Along the way, you’ll encounter challenges, triumphs, and surprises. But through it all, you’ll be moving closer to the life you want to create.

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